Dung Eater
His name is Dung Eater, first of all. If someone sat across from me, drinking coffee on our very first date, and told me to call them Dung Eater, I don’t think it would work out between us.
You want to relate to Dung Eater, since he’s Tarnished like you, the protagonist. But he wears an armor set that’s covered in bony protrusions, like he is made of pork riblets. Flies surround even his non corporeal form in Roundtable Hold, and he speaks often of defilement, murder, and flesh. Clearly, this man is uninterested in making friends or lovers. There, perhaps, is a subreddit out there that would appeal to his dung eating abilities, though.