Your Mama Plays 'Dead Space 2'S

Mom and gamer Winda Benedetti writes why she's not a big fan of Electronic Art's mom-centric Dead Space 2 marketing campaign.

I have four words for Electronic Arts: Leave the moms alone.

That's right, I've got my mom jeans in a pinch thanks to the new "Your Mom Hates This" advertising campaign the company has launched to promote their forthcoming "Dead Space 2" game.

"Dead Space 2" is the sequel to "Dead Space 1" and as the word "Dead" in the title may suggest, the game deals with death a lot - as in, it's a game in which players must fend off a seemingly endless horde of horribly mutated undead creatures hell-bent on stabbing, disemboweling and otherwise ripping them limb from limb.

To promote this horror game, it seems EA corralled a bunch of aging moms into a room and then showed them the most terrifying parts of the game (and there are a lot of those parts to choose from). They then captured the moms' shocked reactions and quivering facial expressions and have now turned it all into an advertisement and associated website meant to pimp out the game.

Yes, you too can watch as the moms cringe and say things like: "This game is an atrocity," and "I think it'll make a person become insane!" A male announcer's voice then chimes in to tell us: "It's revolting. It's violent. It's everything you love in a game. And your mom's going to hate it."

The thing is, this ad campaign misfires in so many ways, it's hard to know where to start. But I'll start with the thing that irks me most:

I'm a mom and I don't hate "Dead Space 2." You know what I hate? Stereotyping.

I get it. I get it. It's supposed to be funny. "Look at the moms freaking out over a violent video game! Isn't that a hoot!" (And yes, I realize, only a mom would use the word "hoot.") And yeah, I'm the same person who defended the controversial "Call of Duty" advertisement not so long ago. But this ad - yeah this ad really chaps my stretch-marked hide.

That's because this mom is tired...no exhausted...from seeing video game marketing campaigns that treat those of us who've given birth or adopted a child like gaming numbskulls. If you follow the line of thinking from these particular marketing geniuses ... moms don't play games. They certainly don't play violent video games. They simply cringe and cower and make overwrought statements about protecting the children.

But you know what. Moms are gamers too. And yes, we even play violent horror games.

After putting my 4-year-old son to bed at night, I've been playing "Dead Space 2" (thanks for sending me the advance copy, EA). And I've been enjoying the hell out of slicing-and-dicing the game's space zombies (aka Necromorphs). I get a kick out of hearing the fleshy crunching sound they make when I stomp their body parts to pieces. And while I may have cringed when the child mutants jumped out at me ... I cut them down just like the rest.

And I'm not alone. Times have changed and continue to change. Moms play video games - all kinds of video games - these days. In fact, many of us grew up playing games. There are moms out there who play games professionally. There's this mom who helped her son build a hit iPhone game. Gamer moms have blogs and web sites all their own, and so do gamer dads.

Yeah, EA pretty much lined up every out-dated stereotype of a mom they could find - older women who may have never played a game in their life. They showed these poor women some scary images knowing full well how they would react. (Though kudos to the EA employee's mom in the video below who didn't react as expected.) And now they're using this to drive a wedge between parents and their children.

And that's another thing that makes me feel like gettin' stabby. While some parents have had it out with their kids over their video game habits, more and more these days video games are becoming a great way for kids and their parents to bond.

Check out this mom who doesn't play games herself but who was thrilled to help her son become the first person in line to buy "Halo: Reach." And check out this heart-warming story from a kid about bonding with his dad over the game "Portal." That's right, many of us parents can't wait to play games with our kids.

Sure not every mom (or not every dad for that matter) is going to want to play "Dead Space 2" with their son or daughter. But why fan the flames of misunderstanding? Is it all just a tongue-in-cheek joke? Are these women really actors? You know what, it doesn't matter. Ultimately EA seems to want younger players to try to upset their parents with this game. They are actively trying to make a divide between one generation and another larger - rather than smaller.

Speaking of which, here's another head-scratcher. EA is making moms everywhere the fall gals so that they can sell their game to ... who exactly? Rebellious teenagers? Don't make me go all mom on you, but I'm pretty sure the vast majority of teenagers aren't old enough to play this M-rated game. You're supposed to be at least 17 years old to buy "Dead Space 2." EA wouldn't be promoting an adult-rated game to kids now would they?

Meanwhile, if you're still rebelling against your mom by buying scary games when your 17 or 18, then that's just sort of pathetic. That's right. Ultimately this campaign is insulting not just to moms but to gamers in general. As Ben Kuchera at Ars Technica puts it:

"Are there gamers out there who purchase games based on what their mothers think?... It seems like we're all working to rid ourselves of the sophomoric 'adult in mother's basement' reputation gamers have among some people. Stuff like this doesn't help."

As a final note, I'm going to echo something one of the moms said in the "Dead Space 2" ad: "Why would they even make something like this?"

Why indeed would EA have made this ad? You know why? Because, as Helen Popkin reports, they thought it would be a clever viral marketing tool. And in this way they have succeeded. Here we are, talking about their ad campaign and spreading it like the seasonal flu that it is.

But shame on you EA … your moms raised you better than this.

Republished with permission.

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Winda Benedetti writes about games for msnbc.com. You can follow her tweets about games and other things right here on Twitter.