I also feel that you are intentionally ignoring the actual reason people complain about the VGA's. It's because they LOVE videogames and are sick of being coddled and demeaned because of that by B-List actors making sexist jokes. They're sick of having their passion embarrassed on national television. They have every right to be upset and voice that on the internet in hopes that enough voices will convince the "bad eggs" (the ones holding back your "good eggs") to go a little bit easier on the "good eggs" trying to class that up.
I'm all for having an optimistic outlook, trying to change things from the inside, but the way you insult anyone who is "mad about the VGA" awards pretty much makes this column sound just as childish and cynical as the people you claim to be taking the "higher road" with.